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Sarah Lavender Smith's avatar

The first part of this post is haunting, and my heart goes out to you. When my husband has not been well, I've grimly considered how I'd take care of our acreage if he died before I did. How would I maintain the irrigation ditch or drive the SkidSteer to plow the driveway or do the countless other heavy-duty chores? I think about having to move to a low-maintenance place closer to medical facilities when we're near retirement and less mobile. To read about you bravely facing that situation, and mustering on, fills me with admiration as well as concern for you. Best wishes to you, and keep doing what you can do! Thank you for writing.

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Greta at Love Off Grid's avatar

I think about this often - the "What ifs" and "What thens" of circumstances shifting to make this lifestyle a lot harder, if not impossible. I'd like to think I'd be strong enough to stick it out, but who really knows until it's happening to you. It's a personal decision everyone has to make for themselves.

I would say, most of all, be kind to yourself and consider where and in what circumstance you will be able to experience the moments that truly make your soul shine. Easier isn't always better.

Regarding others, this saying comes to mind: "If they mind, they don't matter and if they matter, they don't mind". Those who love you will continue to love you no matter where you live. <3

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