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Sarah Lavender Smith's avatar

The first part of this post is haunting, and my heart goes out to you. When my husband has not been well, I've grimly considered how I'd take care of our acreage if he died before I did. How would I maintain the irrigation ditch or drive the SkidSteer to plow the driveway or do the countless other heavy-duty chores? I think about having to move to a low-maintenance place closer to medical facilities when we're near retirement and less mobile. To read about you bravely facing that situation, and mustering on, fills me with admiration as well as concern for you. Best wishes to you, and keep doing what you can do! Thank you for writing.

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David Patriquin's avatar

Re: The Left Turn, I admire your outlook. I have a brother on a farm in rural Quebec in a very similar situation, and attitude. Living on peninsular Halifax, my choices are different... I suggested to my spouse about 10 years ago that perhaps we should be looking at a condo. "The only way I am leaving here", she said very clearly, "is in a coffin". Amen, & no regrets.

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